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Relationships take work, compromise, give-and-take, and serious discussions and decisions.This part of the relationship can leave us feeling vulnerable and can even bring up old wounds we’re not ready or equipped to handle.During the past two decades, I’ve dated both men in recovery and men who weren’t alcoholics (called “normies” by us in the program).
Years of addiction have taken their toll on your body, mind and spirit. Would you really want to begin a new relationship during this time.Dating during sobriety is a nice distraction from the problems you’re going through, but it’s just that: a distraction.If you’re being distracted by anything, including dating, you aren’t focusing on healing.The old “I’ve wrestled with my demons and won” line? How about a simple, “I’m a pretty hot colossal f**k up”?It’s always a little awkward when a potential date wants to “meet you for a drink.” Telling them you’re sober feels like confessing to some horrible chronic STD.